Afraid of Love

Aren’t we…??

A little afraid of Love.

We always keep hearing things like, “Everything you do, do it with a little love” or “It’s not how much you live, but how much you Love that matters”, but on the contrary, what we do is, run away from people who treat us with love.

It’s like anger has become a default expected reply, from everyone and when that doesn’t happen, or, someone replies gently instead, all the theories come falling apart.

Keeping a check on someone in need, is automatically considered as flirting and doing even slightest of favors are considered as an act made for the entry into someones good books. Keeping everything in light humor is for Impressing and having good terms with everyone is the biggest Game of all times.

Very Seldom, or say almost never it happens, that we consider someone’s good gesture, a good gesture, just because the person is more of a human, before anything else and that is what is the Ideal behavior of a Human Being.

This was probably one of the major difference between Homo Sapiens and all the other creatures, that we have an understanding of thousand different emotions, which if you look carefully is quite rare. Nobody other than us in the entire universe, can not only understand, but reciprocate emotions.

But all this seems to be of no use and value as all we do, is ruin everything which we touch.

 

Emotions Vs Behavior

How many of us know the difference between Emotions and Behavior ??

For Sure we know that these are two different words, and so, would hold different meaning, but how many of us have ever thought about how these two are similar as well as different from each other.

With every behavior there is an emotion hidden behind it, and with every emotion there comes a certain behavior attached to it.
Then how come they are different from each other..?? So here goes the answer,

“All Emotions are acceptable, but not all behavior’s are.”

Its an undeniable fact that all the emotions have a certain kind of feeling attached to it and that feeling ultimately triggers a certain kind of behavior inside us. Also, sometimes all of this happens in a such a small fraction of time that we cannot understand that our behavior went wrong even when our emotions were pure. All this ultimately leads to someone getting hurt even when that was not what we wanted in the first place.
And that is the biggest difference between the two.

“None emotions hurt anyone, but behavior’s do. “

For example, It’s OK to be Angry, but it’s not OK to shout at someone. It’s OK to Sad, It’s not OK to put the blame on someone else. It’s OK to be happy, It’s not OK expect be the same exactly when you want them to be.

There can be a lot of emotions, and there are also a lot of ways to get them acknowledged by someone. All we just have to do is to find the right way of doing it.

Being Traditional.

We live in a time where Being Traditional is considered a Taboo, a strict no-no, specially with respect to the teenagers. Following ones traditions, or cultures are thought of something as a very difficult task, which it is not. Continue reading “Being Traditional.”

Lollipop Anthem

FYI.., Its National Lollipop Day in US. It’s for the first time I have heard of something like this. I did not knew that something like this could also be celebrated. Lollipop Day…, Seriously…???pexels-photo-369265 (2)Continue reading “Lollipop Anthem”

Dont Look for it, Have a Look at it.

For Some Mistakes or problems, there is no need of using much brain so as to solve it. Because they are not that big. Ofcourse they appear to be, for now, but they are not. There might be a very simple solution for a problem which is very simple at its root but just appears to be big outside.

And those very underrated lay-man approaches really work well with them. Sometimes all what we need is to forget everything and just take a little overview about it. Solution will be then and there. It might have happened with many of us, that we are all into a big mess, tired and frustrated. When all our inputs are exhausted and still the problem prevails , we reach out for help. We go and find people with whom we can talk and explain our problems. When we find that someone we start telling the whole process of trouble which we underwent.

And  sometimes, just in the middle of our speech…** Bing** Something happens. Something very enlightening. Something magical. Something so obvious. Something so stupid. Something so simple. We stop talking and the brain starts to function all over again. Our solution, there it is and there it was all this while, but only we refused to have a look at it.

Mystery solved. All our suffering have come to an end. Everything starts to make sense all over again. Settled , back in place. And we are left blank, with just a thought. “Was this so simple..?? What were we., blind or dumb..??”

And Whatsoever it was, leave that behind. The Bottom Line is that, it is not always necessary to push ourselves. Sometimes all we need is to lay back and just have a look at it. 🙂

%d bloggers like this: